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captivate 最強の人間関係術

This book is a comprehnsive summary of development of human connection.

What is beneficial is that a lot of practical tips are introduced here.

For example, what i was impressed by is how to make a mini stroy.

A lot of books, especially langage educatinal books sote the importance of mini stories.  They attract people and remind them of yourself.  But no matter how important I know a mini strory is, I have not understood how to make it.  I have almost gave up.

However, this book analyses how a mini story is structured and made it clear how to make it.  A mini story is consist of 4 parts: hook, conflict, unique language and boomerang.

hook: provokative question, itimulating langage and vague opinion that arouse people's curiosity.

conflict & difficulty: issues and problems to be solved, something challenging you have to overcome. This is a small tool that creates tense.

unique: stimulating words that has reality and  expressed something vivid.

hook: I saw a very wonderful scene while drving.

          I ran into a really handsome person a couple of month ago.

conflict: suddenly I saw ~

              you may think I am ~, but acutually I am ~

unique: that was reallly ~, I can not forget it.

 

(to be continued)

CAPTIVATE 最強の人間関係術

CAPTIVATE 最強の人間関係術