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そして父になる

 

I watched the movie "Like dad, like son".

 

I sensed that this was a movie that made me think how you will respond to and accept something that is not controled by you.  In this movie, children were exchanged after birth at a hospital mistakenly.  6 years after the incident, a geneic survey revealed the fact.  The families wondered how to do.

When you face the situation, which do you choose? Will you choose your genetic chilld that has been raised by the other family or a non genetic child that you have been raising?  There may be a clear answer to this and it would depend on the situation you will face. 

However, I think it is worth to think about what makes you belongs to your family: gene or environment.  I don't also know what defines you as a father, but when I watched the movie, I thought that your children made you their father.  What I mean by this is that you are a father if your child accepts that you are a father. It doesn't matter whether you have a blood connection or not. This is the time you can become a father in a real sense.